Friday, July 1, 2011

Tell Us Your Stories (or ask a Question)

I want to hear any success stories you may have had against a male attacker. (It doesn't matter what it was, let us know what worked for you). Also, if you want to ask a question, please do so. I will try to give you the best answer I can. I want this to be a safe place for women to ask questions and to share information they have learned.

Thanks,

Megan

12 comments:

  1. From a series of news articles;

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    Yesterday, twelve days after she was sexually assaulted by a nude man on Goat Island at the Malaekahana State Park, a 22-year-old woman returned there to speak about what had happened to her."One of my concerns about this whole thing is not letting it happen to somebody else," she said. "That's why I'm talking about this. This guy really knew what he was doing and I hope he is caught."
    The park is popular with campers and surfers. Goat Island is a bird sanctuary 300 yards off shore, and at low tide you can wade to it. This is what the woman, who was visiting from Florida, did in the early afternoon. She was about to wade back when a nude man grabbed her from behind and threw her onto the sand.
    In the ensuing struggle she nearly blacked out when she struck her head on a rock but she managed to put up her knees up as the attacker fell on her. "No, I won't let you do this," she kept yelling at him as he tried to tear off the bottom of her bathing suit. She grabbed him by the testicles and pulled. He screamed and ran away. "There's a sense of pride when you come out of a situation alive." she told us. "I was very lucky."
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    :: Pregnant rape victim catches rapist by the testicles
    (2004/04/29 ) - PIETERMARITZBURG, South Africa
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    By Sharika Regchand of African Eye News Service
    A gang rapist was jailed for life on Thursday for raping a woman who was eight months pregnant.
    She had grabbed onto his testicles and wouldn`t let go, however, virtually paralysing him and enabling neighbours to catch him.
    Linda Maxwell Mohlokoane (26) of Mpumalanga township in KwaZulu-Natal was sentenced in the Pietermaritzburg High Court.
    His three co-accused were never arrested, however.
    They had broken into her house at about 11pm on Christmas Eve in 2001.
    While her husband ran for help, they dragged her outside and raped her in the yard.
    They also stole some household items.
    They then dragged the woman to a river and Mohlokoane raped her again.
    She then pretended she needed the toilet and, when Mohlokoane moved to let her go, she grabbed his testicles and screamed for help.
    Residents came to her rescue and found her still clutching Mohlokoane`s testicles.
    His co-accused had fled the scene.
    State advocate Dheelan Naidoo argued that the attack on the woman was "brutal, barbaric and shocking in a civilised society".
    He said the woman does not want to find out her HIV status after the rape.
    Naidoo said it was fortunate that the baby was unharmed during the ordeal and that the woman had not suffered a miscarriage.
    Judge Shyam Gyanda said, "To compare your conduct to a pack of dogs would be
    doing an injustice to dogs."
    He said, "When perpetrators like you invade the sanctity and privacy of a person`s home and rape a pregnant woman, you can`t seek mercy from this court."
    He then rejected Mohlokoane`s application for leave to appeal against his conviction and sentence. - African Eye News Service.

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  2. From News articles:

    ORLANDO, Fla. -- A woman avoided being robbed at an ATM on Friday by kicking a man in the testicles, according to Orlando police.
    Henry Gordon, 52, was arrested on suspicion of attempted robbery after police said he tried to snatch cash out of the hand of the 41-year-old victim.
    Police said the woman made a withdrawal from the ATM and as she was walking away, Gordon tried to take the money from her. She reacted by kicking Gordon, who ran into a wooded area north of the bank, according to police.
    70-year-old woman beats off mugger with kick to crotch
    OSAKA -- A 70-year-old woman who was attacked on a street in Osaka managed to foil her would-be robber by kicking him in the crotch, police said.
    At about 9 p.m. on Tuesday, the attacker grabbed the woman from behind and covered her mouth before pushing her onto the ground in Osaka's Ikuno-ku, demanding money.
    However, he fled after the woman kicked him in the testicles.
    The man was about 165 centimeters tall and looked around 50 years old. He was wearing jeans.
    The woman told police that she used her right leg to administer the coup-de-grace as she has trouble moving her left leg. (Mainichi)
    Click here for the original Japanese story
    January 3, 2007

    IRVINE - A 10-year-old girl kicked a man in the groin and ran away after he offered her candy to take off some of her clothes, authorities said. Police are searching for the man who escaped in a battered green Jeep Wrangler.
    The girl was walking near Bryan Avenue and Marketplace about 3 p.m. Tuesday when the man came up to her and asked her to remove her clothing, said Lt. Rick Handfield of the Irvine Police Department. When the man reached for the girl, she kicked him in the groin and ran, Handfield said.
    The man fell to the ground, Handfield said.Detectives are hoping a sketch of the man will help identify and find him.
    The driver kept following her to the area of Westwood and Eighth Avenue. As the teen was approaching her home, the driver parked his truck by her walking path, police said.
    The man then walked up to her, grabbed her by the arm and began pulling her toward his vehicle, investigators said.
    While the victim was yelling for help, the suspect grabbed her second arm and attempted to force her into the vehicle, police said.
    The girl kneed the man between his legs, broke free and ran toward her apartment complex, where she called 911.
    People with information are urged to call Silent Witness at 480-WITNESS.

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  3. Chicago:
    Colleen, a girl who was grabbed from behind and roughly handled by this guy on a night-club dance floor. Despite her pleas and stomping on his feet he just would not let go and continued hurting her breast. She then decided to take matters into her own hand (literally) by reaching between his legs and grabbing hold of both of his balls. Even though one of his nuts managed to slip out of her hand she still had established a good firm-hard squeezing grip on the other one. Unknown to her at the time this was much more effective as it allowed more force and pressure to be applied on one organ rather than being even distributed on both of them. Needless to say the rest is history. He became so overwhelmed by the extreme pain that any attempt to pry her arm away was rendered useless as it only intensified his agony. Within approximately 10 seconds he began shaking and convulsing then went unconscious for approximately 20 minutes. Upon regaining consciousness he lied on the floor crying and vomiting.
    Fortunately for him Colleen had eased up on her grip just enough when she felt his hand on her wrist go limp and he started to pass-out, otherwise he very well could have ended up with a popped testicle.

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  4. Overall I think i'm glad a guy but women definitely got lucky by not having balls. Balls are very sensitive especially if you get hit when totally by surprise. As a guy it is definitely a little humbling getting kicked in the balls by a girl and I've never even taken a real hard kick in the balls, thank god, but even a small tiny girl can hurt a guy if she kicks em. when we were younger about 17 or 18 and I was over at my friends house and his 13 yr old sister and her friend were talking about a guy they beat up by kicking him in the balls and I was saying how hypothetically I wondered how bad it actually hurt and before I realized what was happening his sister kicked me right in the balls out of nowhere. It wasn't a full strength or anything about about 60% strenth she told me after and luckily she was only barefoot not like crazy shoes or anything but you could tell she had experience kicking guys because it was to perfect of a kick to be a young girl doing it her 1st or 2nd time. I wasn't like in the fetal position crying or anything haha but definitely out of commission for a bit. I wouldn've bet a lot of money a 13 yr old girl could never really hurt me even with a kick in the balls but man was I wrong, within like 3 seconds after feeling her toes hit my nuts a whole wave of pain took over my body and even I really tried I wouldn;t have been able to help but going down for a few mins. It's definitely humbling having a 13 yr old girl take you down so easily especially when her and her friend are mocking you and laughing at you while you're on the ground haha. I probably ended up getting kicked in the nuts at least 3 more times by her over the years but luckily since we were always at her/my friend's house she was always only barefoot and never full strength. She was never trying to cause real pain because I got along with her but I guess going through a typical young girl ball kick phase. Ironically I ended up sleeping with her about a year and a half ago, she turned out really hot when she got older. She was surprised my balls still worked she said though haha.

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  5. A woman uses a sadistic technique because a guy grabs her on a dance floor and won't let go? You better read my posts in 'Operation: Crush'. She could go to jail and be sued for more money than God has. Destroyed life anyone?


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  6. Years ago I was out with my girlfriends at a nightclub in L.A. when approached by a handsome guy for a dance.

    I politely declined and started to walk away from him when suddendly I felt the palm of his hand slapping my face "HARD" for saying No!

    My BITCH Instincts kicked in and I started pounding on his face and did not stop until someone pulled me away from him.

    He never saw it coming. Element of surprise works for me, always has and always will."

    He stayed away from me the entire night.

    P. S. I was wearing a dress and high heels and still kicked ass!

    FIGHT LIKE A BITCH!!!!!!!

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    1. Hey, that's me. Conjuction Junction..what's your Dysfunction?

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    2. Hey, that's me. Conjuction Junction..what's your Dysfunction?

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  7. As a good sized female who knows how to take care of herself who's had plenty of fights in my lifetime, I was @ a bar with my girlfriends and got asked to dance, as I declined and said thank you anyway, the guy slapped me as I walked away.

    It took a couple of seconds and I naturally reacted by pouncing on his face as fast as possible and after pounding on him, I grabbed his hair and was pulling him around, pinning him against the wall all while being in his face.

    I knew then I could defend myself
    as a woman without any hesitation
    and now I'm a self defense instructor 4 Women and Girls.

    I teach (RBSD) along with Savage Fighting and Shredding." As my motto is, Fight like you are going to Die..because you just might."


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  8. As a good sized female who knows how to take care of herself who's had plenty of fights in my lifetime, I was @ a bar with my girlfriends and got asked to dance, as I declined and said thank you anyway, the guy slapped me as I walked away.

    It took a couple of seconds and I naturally reacted by pouncing on his face as fast as possible and after pounding on him, I grabbed his hair and was pulling him around, pinning him against the wall all while being in his face.

    I knew then I could defend myself
    as a woman without any hesitation
    and now I'm a self defense instructor 4 Women and Girls.

    I teach (RBSD) along with Savage Fighting and Shredding." As my motto is, Fight like you are going to Die..because you just might."


    LastStandSelfDefense

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