Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Kathy Long On Strikes To The Testicles and Other Information

Some provocative insights from Kathy Long:

http://blackbeltmag.com/document_display.cfm?document_id=448

"What Really Works
by Kathy Long

I’m probably going to stir up some controversy here, but it needs to be said: Most of the self-defense techniques women learn are overrated. Unless your initial strike entails sticking your finger knuckle-deep in some guy’s eye or hitting him in the windpipe or groin, not much will have a significant effect in terms of deterring the assault.

Therefore, whenever I teach self-defense, I emphasize three things: knowledge of human anatomy, accuracy and commitment to executing the move. Mastering these elements will increase the likelihood of thwarting an attack on the street.

The human body has vulnerable areas, as well as parts that make excellent weapons. Therefore, to mount an effective defense, you must know exactly where to strike, how hard and with what.

In general, punching someone in the ribs is an overrated technique because most women haven’t learned how to punch hard enough to have much of an effect. Elbow strikes and knee strikes are right on the borderline of being overrated because if you’re not accurate when you throw the shot or if you don’t choose a vulnerable target, it won’t cause much damage. On the other hand, both moves are wonderful close-range tools, and they can be devastating when done properly.

Most kicks are also overrated. At the top of the list is kicking to the head. If you’re not flexible and haven’t had extensive training in kicking, or if the surface you’re standing on is unstable, your chances of pulling off a high leg technique are slim to none. Unless you’re very familiar with anatomy, even kicks to the solar plexus are iffy. Kicking or kneeing an assailant in the groin is a wonderful strategy if you actually hit the target. Regardless of the technique—the front kick is good but the side kick is tougher—there’s a chance the stress will make you inadvertently hit him in the thigh, and that kind of contact won’t stop a man who’s used to physical aggression.

Rather than kicking, I prefer to rely on my hands for striking vital targets because they’re designed to execute tasks with accuracy regardless of whether the technique involves gross or fine motor skills. For example, I know that if I palm a man in the groin, I can grab and crush his testicles with my fingers without having to use much strength. There will be no question of whether I’ve hit a vulnerable target, and the comfort of that knowledge is highly underrated. Similarly, open-hand strikes to the windpipe are better anchored and more likely to hit their target than are punches.

In general, I don’t recommend that women grapple with an attacker. Once you’re on the ground, you’re sacrificing yourself and any advantage you may have had while you were standing in terms of incapacitating him and/or running away. It’s also a lot easier for two assailants to overcome you when you’re down. However, if your attacker manages to get on top of you, you can still fight back. Go for his eyes, windpipe and groin, all which are vulnerable while his hands are occupied.

In a life-threatening situation, you can bite a vital part of your assailant’s body to get him off you and buy yourself a few extra seconds to escape. Weigh this option carefully, though: If he’s HIV-positive or has some other contagious disease, you’ll risk contracting the illness.

One element of self-defense training that can’t be overrated is learning to commit to your techniques. Many women are put off by the “gross factor” of gouging an eye; others are reluctant to hurt the person who’s trying to rape or kill them. The only way to overcome these feelings is to practice the techniques over and over on a willing partner. Teaching a woman to pull a strike in class is not recommended because it lulls her into believing she’ll be able to use it to incapacitate an assailant, even though she’s never used it on a training partner.

The best way to learn self-defense is to slowly introduce a few basic, realistic techniques into your repertoire without using power, speed or strength. Practice them with a partner who’s pretending to be an attacker. Once you’re comfortable doing that and see the other person isn’t upset or hurt, gradually increase the speed and power of your blows as he comes at you full speed and with full power. Experiencing the way he reacts to your defense will increase your confidence, bring out your animal instinct and open all kinds of wonderful options for your counterattack.

About the author: Kathy Long is a five-time kickboxing champion, a kung fu san soo expert and a member of the Black Belt Hall of Fame."

Friday, July 1, 2011

Tell Us Your Stories (or ask a Question)

I want to hear any success stories you may have had against a male attacker. (It doesn't matter what it was, let us know what worked for you). Also, if you want to ask a question, please do so. I will try to give you the best answer I can. I want this to be a safe place for women to ask questions and to share information they have learned.

Thanks,

Megan

Thursday, June 30, 2011

Operation: Crush

Below Is An Article From ehow.com

The Testicle Twist, Pull, and Squeeze Tactic:

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Grab the attacker's testicles. If you can't determine where exactly his testicles are located either because it's dark or because he is wearing thick pants, grab in his general crotch area. Executing the technique on his **** will still be effective, although grabbing the testicles will bring him much more prolonged pain.
Once you have grabbed his testicles (or whatever you can get a hold of in his crotch area), twist them in a quick, concise motion. Twisting a full turn is not necessary and will be difficult for you to do. Instead, twist a half-turn or even a quarter-turn. The key here is a fast, powerful twist that will surprise him. If you are unable to twist for whatever reason, a squeeze will be just as sufficient.
After twisting, quickly pull what you're holding. Pull as if you are trying to pull his testicles out of his body--the harder you pull, the better. Your life is in danger and you are completely justified in causing him incredible pain. Show no mercy.
Follow these steps and you will have successfully executed the grab twist pull testicles self-defense technique. The entire process should last no longer than a couple of seconds and your efforts should immobolize your attacker. Beware of grabbing, twisting, or pulling for too long or the attacker may cause you even more harm in order to stop the pain. Remember: execute the technique quickly and escape while he is trying to recover.


HERE IS WHAT THE WEBSITE http://womensselfdefense.info/120.html has to say on this subject:

This is a great move because it can be done from almost any position. It is especially useful in a bearhug when your arms are pinned within his (his mistake, since that's exactly where you need them to be!)

* Grab a handful of groin (grab with all 5 fingers, don't just pinch with a finger and thumb!).
* Squeeze as hard as you possibly can. Really dig in, and feel free to use your nails.
* At this point you may also twist, and/or pull
* If it's working, don't let go till you are sure you are safe!

The goal here is to grab at least one of his testicles (or both). If you feel that at any point you have failed you may need to readjust your grip.

If it doesn't seem to be working you can try something else instead. No sense hanging on if it's not doing anything.

IMPORTANT: If it's working, don't let go till you are sure he is no longer a threat! There have been cases where a "victim" has called the police (or even made the attacker) and waited for them to arrive before letting go!

Feel free to also strike him with your other hand, kick, bite, choke, or even headbutt!

Both of these articles are very good information for any women to remember when a man attempts to rape her. But a point of note from the first article from ehow, they say only to squeeze the man's testicles just for a little bit because if you squeeze too long the man would get too angry, but it has been my experience, in the two times I have used this technique, that once the squeeze is applied, the man is basically helpless. Sure, he may try to pull your hand away from his groin, but if he does he is only PULLING on his own scrotum, thus injuring himself more. Also, if the man tries to hit you, while you are squeezing the life out of his bits, he won't have any strength to hurt you as his entire body will be focusing on the pain between his legs.

The important thing I have read is make sure you are close to the man when trying this tactic. Also, don't just reach your hand between his legs and try to grab his testicles (unless he's naked, then it's easy to just grab those things), because it may take you a second to fish around for where exactly his testicles are, and if you give a man that much warning about what you are going to do, then he will be able to stop you. Either do A) fondle his groin area, rub it, make him feel good, get him to drop his defenses, then once you are certain of the location of his testicles, then squeeze his baby makers. Or B) slap your hand, open palm, as hard as you can into his groin area, this will stun the man for at least a couple seconds, allowing you time to get your fingers wrapped around his testicles, and then it is OVER for him as you squeeze, twist, and pull on them as hard as you can.























  • Wednesday, June 22, 2011

    Welcome!

    Hello Everybody!

    My name is Megan, sometimes I call myself Megan "Kick Ass!" But more on that later. I am glad you are here. The purpose of this blog is to spread self defense awareness for women everywhere. The mission I have is to educate women on a man's greatest weakness: his testicles. And how to use his testicles (his nuts, balls, whatever you want to call them) to your advantage.

    First off, I am not an expert, or at least not an official expert. Though I have taken several self defense classes and I have had several experiences in fending off male attackers, or overly horny men who don't know how to keep their hands to themselves. I know more than I want to about a man's testicles and how delicate and easily hurt men get when you even lightly tap them in that soft spot. There are of course many other good techniques to be used in defend yourself (I will provide some links on that later). Of course I am not saying the balls are the only target and the only way a woman can defend herself from a rapist. But the main concentration of this blog we be the testicles--the most vulnerable spot on a man's body.

    Yes, most of you know a good kick in the testicles will hurt a guy, but there is more to it than just that. There is more than just the kick to the groin. There is a wealth of information a woman needs to know about a man's balls and the many strikes one has at her disposal to pummel that weak spot. I will provide the information I have on the many tactics a woman can use that will prove to be useful. There are a lot of men out there who say "I can take a shot to the nuts" or many who say don't use a strike against the balls because it will just make a man more angry. I say that is absolutely crazy! When men get hit in the baby makers, trust me, they feel it. Men on the internet don't like to admit they have a weak spot that women can exploit. But I won't let them deter me from getting my message out there.